Wednesday, April 12, 2006

Any Soldier

I’m breaking a few of my own rules today. For one, I originally thought I’d post something silly today since yesterday’s post was a little on the heavy side. I don’t like to write heavy posts back to back. It’s depressing. Secondly, I thought I’d never use my blog to promote anything more than someone else’s cool post. As I pushed the garbage can down the driveway last night a helicopter flew over my house and it reminded me of something I said I would do. Forgive me; I’ll try to be silly tomorrow.

Last night I visited a website, anysoldier.com . I scrolled through the list of recent posts for needed items and came across one from a Marine Unit on its second tour. They had already received several care packages and the contact person had posted a thank you for the support. It was the last few lines of his post that caught my eye….
“There are several Marines out here who are barely out of high school – please
pray for their mothers, I know they are worried sick.”
I couldn’t stop the tears as they rolled down my face. I thought about being in a foreign country at 18 years old not for spring break with sand between my toes and a beer in my hand but for something terrifying and surreal. My mind couldn’t process it. I remember when my brother was stationed in Honduras in his early 20s. He was scared, lonely and begging for any news from home…all that while building a bridge during peace time. I remember my grandfather’s stories from WWII. His blue eyes would sparkle and he’d laugh as he’d talk about using chickens for target practice or waving at the pretty girls as they marched through European towns. I also remember the stories my grandmother told about the nightmares he had when he returned.

My great-grandfather and my grandfather were both Army veterans. My mom’s boyfriend was Air Force. My brother was National Guard. And me? Well, I never did anything but question our government. I could, however, go to the store and buy a few packets of kool-aid, some rice krispie treats and a magazine and send them to a soldier who gets little or no mail. I could also pray for his mother.

I haven’t revealed my thoughts on the war and, frankly, I’d prefer not to know yours. That’s not my intention with this blog or this post. I simply wanted to convey my experience while visiting this website.

8 Comments:

Blogger xwy said...

Awww, Denny, you're too kind... I watch the TV and read articles about the war but I don't really think about the fact that there are people in those uniforms. Ya know? It doesn't always sink in that I'm not watching a movie or reading a fictional story.

10:23 AM  
Blogger Seven said...

Well written and thoughtful. Nice work.

11:31 AM  
Blogger xwy said...

Rick - Thanks!

All - I didn't mean to sound irrate about not wanting to know everyone's view on the war. I just didn't want to take away from the aspect of the story. Has anyone seen my Pamprin? lol.

12:55 PM  
Blogger Seven said...

I don't discuss politics on my page either. Frankly it's just too easy and the lines are so divided it is wasted energy anyway. My 2 cents; so much of public political opinion for hardworking everyday Americans is totally driven by the media that thoughtfulness has diappeared in political discourse; no more media voices are necessary.

3:06 PM  
Blogger Lisa said...

I think there are so many different views on the various wars that it can be difficult to let others know your own opinion without someone else disagreeing...like politics and religion really.

I didn't feel that you were sounding irate about it, just stating what you'd read and how you feel. I guess in some ways it's easier for some not to delve too much into what's going on over there, just to keep some kind of semblence in our own lives. But that's not to mean we've forgotten them and don't have our hearts ache for their safety.

It's obvious you have strong ties to the military and a kind heart.

3:40 PM  
Blogger xwy said...

Exactly. And I didn't want it to turn into a free-for-all political discussion. I do agree with Rick that too many people are driven solely by what they read/hear in the media (I think that's where you were going).

I don't think it was the strong military ties as much as the fear that my 16 year old nephew will think this is a good idea in a few years.

Lisa - Thanks for stopping by. I promise to stop by your blog too.

4:12 PM  
Blogger Lisa said...

I understand what you mean about your nephew...my sons are 16 and 15, and the thought of either of them going overseas in a couple of years without me makes my stomach drop....let alone going into the military and possibly putting themselves in the line of fire...it doesn't bear thinking about for me.

Gosh that was a long sentence lol

3:05 AM  
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