The "Too Tired" Answers - Part II

What is your favorite sexual position or act and why?

My first thought was to name a position because that’s probably the easiest way out of this question. But I think favorite positions change depending on the lover. What works well with one may not bring on the hallelujah chorus with another. Besides, that would take the fun out of this exercise.

Your question was favorite, wasn’t it? As in can’t get enough? Prefer to do it every time? The answer is simple…foreplay. The problem is that I hardly ever receive enough of it. Most men focus more on the end as their goal. Who can blame them? I mean most can only orgasm once during sex therefore it would make sense that their focus is on the end result rather than the journey to it. However, as women have the ability to orgasm multiple times during sex it would make sense that we prefer to enjoy the journey. And I’m not talking about trying to tune in Tokyo [tuning in Tokyo is a reference to using nipples in a fashion similar to knobs on a radio]. There are a multitude of erogenous areas on a woman. Take time to explore and find them. For example, there is a nerve ending behind my ear lobe that must run straight to my g-spot. A light kiss there combined with a warm breath is almost enough to send me over the edge. You’d never know that unless you explore a little. Running a hand along my side or inner thigh combined with light kisses will also do the trick. Actually, a few light touches anywhere around the genital area will raise my temperature quickly. It’s not about touching obvious areas but the anticipation, teasing if you will, created by touching the areas that aren’t obvious that I enjoy the most.